LOVE when i get asks like this about stuff from months ago
this is the ask in question:
link to it here
OK so first off? I’m not transgender. I am not a trans guy. It CLEARLY states this in my sidebar, and has for literally years now. I am genderqueer, a subset of nonbinary. This is separate from transgender people. Just some quick facts. In no way shape or form am I a guy, male, a boy, a man, or any other way you’d like to put it.
Second off, I was never a girl. I was raised as one and i identified as one for 15 years of my life, but that was because it was thrust upon me. I’ve always been genderqueer, it just took me 15 years to figure that out.
Implying either IS transphobic. That ask is, in fact, transphobic. You were exhibiting transphobic behavior. Given this, you probably STILL DO exhibit transphobic behavior, especially from the language of this ask.
I’m not here to make friends with everyone. I’m here to make friends with people who respect me completely and don’t say these kinds of things about me because guess what, it’s rude and completely unneeded.
Are you ignorant? Yes. Are you also transphobic? Yes. Don’t try to shake off that label, because the actions you execute make you deserve it. Instead look at it and think to yourself, “Wait, how am I being transphobic? What did i do wrong? How can i fix this?” Instead of “Wait, how am I being transphobic? I can’t be, this person is obviously attacking me for no reason.”
Transphobia isn’t just saying “I hate trans people etc.” It’s also implying that they are unnatural or abnormal, as well as alienating their experiences (among other things) with comments like “i just dont understand how you can be like this.” GREAT FOR YOU. Why should we care what you do and dont understand? It’s not our problem, it’s yours. The only time it gets to be our problem is when you come to us with bullshit questions like this.
And last but definitely not least, you can take your condescending tone right the fuck out of my ask box right now with your bullshit “I’d just suggest you take a second to respond peacefully” It’s not my job to calmly take your hand and guide you through. I’m a human and I get offended. I’m a human and I get pissed off when people send me transphobic asks. I’m a human who deserves basic respect. I don’t give two shits what you have to say honestly, if you’re the kind of people I could have the chance to make friends with otherwise I’ll happily stay this way please and thank you.